What's happened to Dark family?

I was recently kicked out of a family. I didn't do anything wrong, I just felt awkward booting into Dark's room while she's talking to people. Isn't a Pico family supposed to be big? It's not just NUMBERS but I mean, they're not supposed to have a limit either. Dark family is now VIP. No, Bleue family is VIP, Dark family is VVVIP. I'm sorry, but the meetings have nothing to do if people can't fit into one house. Do what Bleue family did, move to a area. I'm just so confused right now, it makes no sense.